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We think love should feel like certainty - a steady hand on the back, a voice that never trembles. But love is a classroom and we arrive as children pretending to be adults. We do not fall for perfection. We fall for familiarity. For echoes of old rooms. For the tone that once hurt us but feels like home. And so when you grow distant my body does not see the present it sees an archive. Dust rises. A younger self runs to fix what cannot be fixed. You say, “It’s nothing.” My pu

You tell yourself this time will be different. Different partner. Different job. Different tone. And yet somehow the feeling is familiar. You over-explain. You shut down. You try to fix it. You wait for reassurance that doesn’t quite come. Afterwards you think:“Why did I react like that again?” It rarely feels dramatic. It ’s subtle. A shift in someone’s voice. A delayed message. A piece of feedback at work. And suddenly you’re not fully in the present anymore. You’re respond

The Illusion of Freedom: How Society Traps Us in a Narrow Definition We live in a world that prides itself on freedom. Freedom of choice, speech, movement, and lifestyle. But when you take a step back, you start to see that society often defines freedom in ways that are convenient, comfortable, and ironically limiting. The Standard Definition of Freedom Most people associate freedom with external choices: the ability to travel, work remotely, buy what you want, and express yo

Freedom. We all crave it in some way - whether it’s in our relationships, careers, finances, or even just how we spend our time. But what does freedom actually mean? It’s easy to think of it as having no restrictions , but real freedom is deeper than that. It’s not just about doing whatever you want - it’s about knowing why  you’re making the choices you make. It’s about recognizing the difference between escaping  and actually creating  the life you want. How often do we con